YOUR CAREER AND WOMEN.

At 7, u have a goal, you say u wanna be this or that, maybe see a plane fly above you and conclude you would like to be a pilot.

At 12, you start pursuing that goal, you make a priority, going to school regularly, reading hard to meet up and be the best. Your parents stir up your Spirit, telling you won't make your Dreams if you aren't the 1st in your class. So you keep up the diligent work you've been doing.

At 16, you're faced with another challenge, another challenge comes in, which is your Emotions. Just out of the Blue, you find yourself an Enemy of you. Now you're fighting your body to be in order.

You see that girl, she's so beautiful in your eyes, you get Attracted, you wanna be around her. Peers won't assist, they've probably lectured you on what a relationship is called, the boyfriend and girlfriend stuff. And right now, you want her to be your girlfriend, they give you hints and tips, on how to get her, how to go about it.

At this point, where is your childhood Dream and Ambition? ( To Be A Pilot ) its been kept aside, and a new goal is created, a goal to win the heart of the Girl in question. You keep giving her all the attention, making your academics suffer, she becomes your sole aim.

PROBABILTY.

1). You win her heart, and get a responsibility, which is to keep her Company, trying to please her at all costs, probably doing anything she asks that's within your power just to make her happy.
(When its your 1st Time being in a relationship, you are inexperienced and get used or fooled a lot) Now that would apparently degrade your academical performance as well.

2). She plays Hard to get, and you keep trying to persuade and convince her to see that what you feel for her is True and Sincere. While doing all that, you give your academics less time, so your performance degrades as well.
So tell me a WAY OUT ...

FACTS.
When you're in involved in females, you put them above everything else, they become what you mostly think about.
How do I get that GiRL ?
What would I do to make her believe I LOVE her ?
Where would I take her this weekend ?
Does she truly love me ?
Why isn't she replying my texts ?
How can I get her in BED ?
Would she like this DRESS ?
What would be her reaction if I attempt to KiSS her ?
Am I being used ?
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When you consider the things you think about, at times, you feel you're Foolish. When you're involved in women, your apparent aim daily would be pleasing her. Makes it worse when you're a womanizer. The little you've saved, you use up, just to please her. In most cases, you ignore things that are more important for a woman's sake. They get you obsessed.

Now tell me how you're going to make it if you try taking on a female on your way to success. Its like climbing a ladder with someone on your back, when you alone find it difficult getting to the top. Some would say it depends on the woman you're dating, but what's the difference? Even when she gives you courage on your way to the top, can you, being the male focus on your Goal without her being a distraction on your mind?

But when they BREAK your HEART. That's BRUTALiTY. The AFTERMATH is MUTALiTY. That's when the whole world takes a PAUSE up there in your HEAD, but REALiTY remains, only when you recover would you REALiZE you've MiSSED out on a whole lot.

SEX is FATALiTY. The above still gives you a chance to live life. But when you get involved in SEX, that's when you're DOOMED.
When you get involved in SEX, depending on your girlfriend, you transform into a sex slave, even to the extent of pleading for SEX, chasing multiple women for that aim, with time, you adapt to sleeping with Hookers and Whores on the street. You practically become a Womanizer, sleeping with anything in SKiRT.

If she gets pregnant, the next option is to sell your career. Because not all girls would accept to abort her baby, and you being the guy, killing your first creation can make you infertile for life, believe it or not. Moreover, are you that Heartless? After all, you know what SEX can lead to.
You all say GOD created SEX basically for HUSBANDS and WIVES to enjoy within the marriage. But I say GOD created SEX with the sole aim of REPRODUCTION. The actual reason anyone should have sex is to reproduce and populate the earth. Since that's the ultimate end of it all, then its the Ultimate reason. Even the BiBLE tells us that most of the things we do to PLEASE ourselves are all SINFUL. In search for PLEASURE, many people have ended up in places and situations they can't get out from.
Just save it up there... Sex is 4 reproduction, all other whatever derived from it are mere creative recreation with dire consequences.
They say WOMEN ( SEX ), MONEY ( WEALTH ) and POWER ( STATUS ) rules the world. Actually, these are what leads to the DOWNFALL of a man.
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FiNALE
There is a TiME for everything.
TiME 2 Read.
TiME 2 Eat.
TiME 2 Sleep.
TiME 2 Play.
TiME 2 Pray.
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Patience is the best virtue. Believe there is a time for everything. You can't serve 2 masters at the same time. You know you'll eventually get MARRiED, so why are you trying to have a TASTE of what you're going to experience then. To everything, there is a season. In the life of a man, we have just one shot at SUCCESS. If you miss that SHOT, all you have left is REGRET.
If only you can let go of females, if only you can be Patient, if only you can accept everything has a time, if only you can focus on your Goal and carry on with your Ambition believing women are a distraction, only then would you understand the TRUE SECRET OF SUCCESS. Only then would you become an UPGRADED ACHIEVER with none to pull you back.
Tell me how many women earned their own savings. Can you count the number of ladies in NIGERIA that can BRAG all they own is SELF EARNED without the assistance of any man? Without them, you can LiVE. You were alive before you knew women exist and you would still be Alive long after you've forgotten they ever came in existence.
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Written by_
Chinedu Micheal Okoye
C.M.O (aka SnOwKiD)